For parents of kids who struggle to read
There is hope.
Here's what I wish someone had told me years ago: with the right teaching, kids with dyslexia learn to read. And they can read well! You don't have to figure this out alone... we'll take it one small step at a time.
Get the free parent checklist What actually helpsTake a deep breath.
If reading time ends in tears (yours or theirs!), or your bright, funny kid has started saying "I'm just dumb"... I've been there. Here are three things I really want you to hear.
You're not alone.
It can feel like you're the only parent sitting at the table at night wondering what on earth to do next. You're not. So many of us have been right there, and we made it through.
It's not your fault.
Dyslexia isn't caused by your parenting, screen time, or skipping bedtime stories. You didn't do this. Really. (And yes, I needed to hear that too.)
It's not your child's fault.
Your kid isn't lazy, and they are SO not "dumb." Their brain just needs reading taught in a clearer, more direct way. That's it!
So what actually helps?
Okay, here's the good news: we know a LOT about how to teach reading to kids who find it hard. It usually looks something like this...
- ✓Explicit teachingSounds and spelling patterns are taught directly and clearly, not left for kids to guess or memorize by sight.
- ✓Systematic, step by stepSkills build in a careful order, from simple to more complex, so nothing important gets skipped.
- ✓Multisensory practiceKids see it, say it, hear it, and write it, often with movement or touch, so learning sticks.
- ✓Lots of kind, steady reviewShort, regular practice at your child's pace, with plenty of encouragement (and a little patience... okay, a lot of patience).
Educators often call this structured literacy or Orton-Gillingham-style teaching. Want to read more? See the International Dyslexia Association's page, What Is Structured Literacy?
A note from Lindy
Hi, I'm Lindy! I'm a homeschooling mom of five boys, and dyslexia has been part of our story for a long time.
Years ago, I was the mom crying over her laptop. I'd read all the books, trained myself to tutor, and showed up for lessons every single day... and it still felt like reading was never going to click. I wanted SO badly to be a success story. I just wasn't one yet.
Well, guess what? Today all five of my boys read for fun. For FUN! Can you even imagine?! It took patience, the right kind of teaching, and more than a few tears (mostly mine).
Along the way I became certified in dyslexia assessment, and I'm finishing my Master's in Educational Psychology. But honestly, the biggest thing I've learned is this: there is hope. Your child can learn to read, and read well.
That's what Reading With Hope is for. Plain words, real help, no scare tactics... and a whole lot of hope. I'm so glad you're here.
Lindy at Reading With Hope
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